What is a charity gift registry?
A charity gift registry is a way of asking guests to support causes instead of buying presents. It is often used for weddings, milestone birthdays, anniversaries and retirements, when the people involved already have what they need.
This page explains the idea in general terms. It is informational only and does not take part in any registry.
When it works well
Weddings
Couples who want their celebration to support causes they care about.
Birthdays
Milestone events where guests ask what to bring.
Anniversaries
Celebrations of time together that look outward.
Retirements
A way for colleagues to honour someone’s career.
How a registry usually works
- Choose causesPick a handful of causes that matter to the people involved.
- Write a short messageExplain why you chose them in a few friendly sentences.
- Share itLet guests know where to find the registry and how it works.
- Say thanksFollow up with a note about what the support made possible.
Tips for a good registry
- Keep the list short and easy to understand.
- Choose causes with a clear purpose, and read about them first.
- Make it optional, so guests who prefer to bring a present can still do so.
- Check that any organisation you choose is registered with the national charity regulator.
Questions people ask
Is a registry a good idea for every occasion?
Not always. It suits events where guests would like a meaningful alternative to a present.
Do guests have to take part?
No. A registry is an invitation, not an expectation.
How do I choose causes?
Start with the issues you and your guests care about, then read about the organisations working on them.